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What to Do When You Don’t Know What You Want

April 12, 2014 By Taylor

 

I Don't Know What I Want

 

I drafted this post on Friday night at 7pm. I’m sitting in a cafe in San Francisco right now at around 6:30am on a Saturday editing it.

I was going to go to the Giants’ game Friday, but after walking around for a few hours with some friends, I sort of got that itch to work.

Whenever I take time off, I always get that itch. The farther I get into entrepreneurship, the more transparent and bigger opportunity costs become.

I see more opportunity today than I ever have in the past and that only seems to be accelerating. Both because it’s more transparent to me personally and because there’s just more opportunity out there.

Social, economic, and technological barriers to entry are lower than ever and falling in almost every market.

While this is exciting, I don’t really know where it’s going. Both in general and for me personally.

I’ve talked a handful of people since reading/watching Start with Why by Simon Sinek.

Everyone loves Sinek’s general concept – define a central, motivating WHY for yourself, your organization or your project and let that be an effective guiding heuristic that moves the organization or yourself towards it’s ultimate goal.

But what if you don’t know exactly where you’re going? What if you have to ask yourself, “What do I do with my life after college’? I’ve talked to a lot of people that agree with the concept but don’t necessarily know their WHY.

They like the work and they’re looking for a higher purpose for it, but aren’t clear what that purpose is.

I feel the same.
I love the work, but I don’t know exactly where it’s going. I don’t have a clearly defined end game – it’s always evolving.

It’s becoming more clear, but  only as a result of experience and actually having something to look back on.

I was talking to Ian a week or so ago about this. We both like the work, but it’s not entirely clear where it’s going.

What I do know is that things are changing faster than ever. There’s not a shortage of opportunity.

 

Building a Platform to Optimize for Optionality

The answer to ‘What Do I Do With My Life After College’.

The best solution I’ve come up with for this is to optimize for optionality.

And the best way to optimize for optionality is to build a platform.

A Platform is something that gives you more, better options – it creates optionality.

I like to think of it as a bank account of different currencies – both legible and illegible ones.

Platforms are valuable because platforms create optionality. And optionality lets you get what you want once you figure out the answer to “What Do I Do With My Life”.

 

Things that Grow a Platform

A Track Record of Creating Results People Pay For – See Hustle – Ability to manage distributed teams, Sales, Copywriting, Doctors that actually help people. Any skill set people will pay you for gives you options.

Networks – Being able to connect people synergistically and creating win-wins. Both loose ties and strong ties.

Trust and Attention/Distribution Channels – Blogs, Podcasts, Speaking Gigs – anything that shows you have the trust and attention of another person. Probably getting more valuable.

Cash – See everything Mark Cuban has ever written.

Assets that are Growing/Appreciating – Businesses, Rental Properties, and most significantly – Yourself .

 

Things that Destroy a Platform

Personal Debt – Debt destroys freedom and dramatically reduces your options.

Poisonous Relationships – Hanging around with people that suck is draining.

Lack of Integrity – See Trust and Attention. The inverse of that.

 

Things Commonly Mistaken as Platform

Illiquid Assets – There’s nothing about a 30 year mortgage or 3% equity in a failing company that creates more options.

Good ideas that you don’t have the resources to convert into tangible outcomes – This is one I’ve learned the hard way. The world isn’t short on good ideas or opportunity – it’s short on hustle. 

So I’m trying to do things that grow platforms – meet people, create results, save money, invest in assets.

 

what do i do with my life after college

 

Caveats

1. Platform is agnostic. Building a platform doesn’t ensure it will ever get used for anything beneficial. There isn’t anything about platform that necessarily guarantees happiness, it just guarantees options.

I knew a handful of very rich people growing up that had very large platforms – lots of cash, lots of influence, lots of relationships, lots of options.

And for the most part, they were fairly miserable people in my opinion. So while platforms create optionality – They certainly don’t ensure you’ll use it well.

 

2.  When you do know what you want – decrease optionality. You don’t necessarily always want options. I believe the distinction is whether or not you have clearly defined outcomes.

If you know the outcome you want, it makes sense to eliminate or at least drastically decrease optionality. If you want to lose weight, it’s a lot easier to just eat the same food everyday. If you want to write a book, don’t do a lot of lunch meetings.

P.S. I struggled to come up with more Things that Grow/Destroy Platforms and not even sure the ones I outlined are correct or properly categorized. Feedback appreciated.

Last Updated on July 30, 2019 by Taylor Pearson

Filed Under: Investing & Decision Making

Comments

  1. Mike Harrington says

    April 23, 2014 at 11:16 pm

    Thanks for writing this, man. The past 12 months has been a HUGE vetting process for me – in terms of eliminating all kinds of platform destroyers.

    Student loan debt: PAID. Car: Paid. Saved cash: Done. Started my own platform and built relationships: In progress. Went location independent. Had to out-grow some old relationships, as well.

    I really felt the most challenging (and nebulous) hurdle to face was how to deal with leftover friendships and relationships, that no longer seemed to be aligned with the direction I am now going.

    Well said, man.

    Mike

    • Taylor Pearson says

      April 24, 2014 at 5:53 am

      Thanks Mike!

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